Exalt your reason to the height of passion...

...Therefore let your soul exalt your reason to the height of passion; that it may sing; And let it direct your passion with reason, that your passion may live through it's own daily resurrection and like the phoenix rise above it's own ashes.

I would have you consider your judgment and your appetite even as you would two loved guests in your house. Surely you would not honour one guest above the other; for he who is more mindful of one loses the love and the faith of both.
-- Kahlil Gibran (The Prophet, On Reason and Passion)

It is all about balance... all about being "the lover of all your elements"!